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Get under someone’s skin

Meaning: To deeply irritate, annoy, or provoke someone, or alternatively, to strongly affect someone emotionally, often in a way they can’t ignore.

Usage in Example Sentences:

  1. “Her constant interruptions really get under my skin during meetings.”
  2. “That catchy tune has gotten under my skin—I can’t stop humming it!”
  3. “Despite his tough exterior, her kindness got under his skin, and he started to open up.”

Origin:
The phrase likely originated as a metaphor for something causing discomfort, much like an insect or object physically under the skin. Over time, it came to symbolize emotional or mental irritation. The idiom gained broader use in literature and conversation by the mid-20th century.

Get under someone's skin

Rub someone up the wrong way

Meaning: To irritate, annoy, or upset someone, often unintentionally, by doing or saying something they dislike.

Usage in Example Sentences:

  1. “Her sarcastic comments rubbed him up the wrong way during the meeting.”
  2. “He tends to rub people up the wrong way with his blunt remarks.”
  3. “I didn’t mean to rub you up the wrong way—I was just trying to help.”

Origin:
This idiom comes from the imagery of stroking a cat’s fur in the opposite direction of its natural grain, which can make the animal uncomfortable and irritated. First used in the 19th century, it has since been applied metaphorically to describe interactions that cause annoyance or friction in people.

Rub someone up the wrong way